Deleting all your social media accounts — Thoughts

Sangeeth M S
4 min readApr 26, 2020
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We know we can’t live without social media. Let’s cover some relevant topics we think it’s silly and neglect but very important.

  • Why is social media free.
  • Is there real addiction to social media.
  • Is there any trouble using social media.
  • Are they selling your data?

Why social media is free:

“If you are good at something you should haven’t given it for free” — Unknown

Many sites allow users to browse for free. When we enter these free sites, there will be advertisements in some portions of the web page. These website owners make money by placing these advertisements on the page, It is a good side-business. GoogleAds is famous among bloggers to make side income writing blogs and placing advertisements in blogs. There are many people making money only writing blogs.

In terms of social media, there is a slight difference — Advertisements are targeted. As per your data, They take your gender details, Age details, etc. whatever they have, and show related ads on your page. They always have some space for advertisements shows ads there using different analytics and your behavior patterns.

Let’s take the case of Instagram. While swiping stories, There are Ads in-between. If they find you are using Spotify and they have a pattern of listening hip-hop while exploring Instagram, You can see ads of Spotify playlist suggestions, Artist suggestions as advertisements.
There will be many times your jaw have dropped when you viewed a video on youtube and later Instagram, then you saw an AD with related to the same video you watched before. These guys are sharing information and tracking you.

This is the whole target advertising. The kings of target advertising are Google, Facebook, and Amazon. There will be spaces for then in every platform you enter to show their target(you) specific Advertisement.

Are they selling your data?

Selling through social channels is the closest thing to being a fly on the wall in your customer’s, prospect’s and competitors’ world.— Keenan.

They maynot sell your data. They have your data and analytics and great advertising platform. Anyway, people are advertising through social media. So social media targets user using user data and show AD to the user.

We cant strictly say they are not selling data. As per agreements and government policies, and social sites are not allowed to sell user data without their consent. We don’t know what is happening inside.

Real addiction in social media.

“Distracted from distraction by distraction” ― T.S. Eliot

You may now know you are addicted. How do you feel like quitting social media for a day? That feeling just came into your mind is a consequence of addiction. But I have seen people strong enough or busy enough or fed up with social media. But it’s the other 80% of people in social media.

Have you ever seen people checking their phones regularly in the dining table? When you are talking to a person? When they are standing in the crowd? In bus? They will be spending their free time. But using social media even you are engaged in other activities is simply because of addiction.

“Social media is designed to be addictive” — Fact

Its king of trap for your mind. There are psychological experts, Neuroscience departments in their companies to study the reaction in social media. There is analytics in social media where you will be shown what you like to see. On Instagram, there is one option to explore along with search. Whatever content is shown over there will have a pattern that matches your previous searches and pages or posts you visited — The content you like to see. Same on youtube default page and suggestions. Which makes you watch youtube or Instagram or TikTok videos for more time. Meanwhile, they can display more of their advertisements and make money. It’s not your fault you are addicted to social media. You have to accept the fact they are using and controlling your mind.

Is there any trouble using social media.

There is no trouble anywhere if you are doing right

What will you feel if you are followed by a person? He is following everywhere you go. In every site you visit, He is using you to make himself some money. Other than this there are several other possible troubles listed below.

  • Time wasting.
  • Distancing from society.
  • Virtual friends.
  • Lack of focus and productivity.
  • cyberbullying.
  • Getting into trouble from others.Remarks

It's not about quitting all social media, But you should know what exactly is happening. You should not be late when you realise everything. Don't let others control your mind.

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It’s not about quitting all social media, But you should know what exactly is happening. You should not be late when you realize everything. Don’t let others control your mind.

— Claps if you agree —

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Sangeeth M S

Software Engineer. Writer on technology, psychology, mathematics, movie and arts.